Last summer, I met a guy. Mr. Hottie, specifically. We had a grand old time getting to know each other for a few months. I’m impatient, though, when it comes to relationships.
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I didn’t want to keep spending time with Mr. Hottie without knowing how it was going to turn out. I wanted to know right away, was he going to fall in love with me or be just another guy I met one time and we had this great short story? I wanted instant results, none of that “let’s just take our time and see where this goes”, crap.
There’s a term for this impatience. It’s called a “microwave culture”.
We try to bypass being active participants in our life. We expect that other people, or even technology, will do all the work for us.
We go to the doctor and think that just by going, we’ll get better.
We expect a weight loss program to make us thin and beautiful, just because we paid for it.
We think that if we join an online dating site, or meet Mr. Hottie when he makes your morning espresso, that we’ll be married in six months.
No. we have to put the work in.
Those that actively participate in their own lives are the ones who succeed in reaching their goals and seeing new ones.
The man who chooses to start eating healthy and exercise, will lose the weight.
The person who does their rehab exercises and follows the doctor’s instructions, has a higher chance of recovery.
The idealist who sees the deep despairs of the world, picks up their feet, and walks towards them will make a difference.
The writer who writes fifteen minutes a day.
The athlete or musician who practices every spare minute.
If you put the work in, you will see your life start to change (and maybe the world). Don’t just sit by and let someone else do the work.
Don’t expect true love to happen faster than you can cook a TV dinner.